Should you have a wedding theme?
When you're planning your wedding, whether or not to have a theme can be one of the toughest decisions you'll make: if you do choose to go with a theme, however, it can add an extra layer of fun and flair to your big day and make it even more memorable than it would be otherwise. Plus. if you choose wisely, you'll be able to coordinate your wedding décor in a way that makes the most sense, given your interests and the time of year your wedding will be held
What's a theme anyway?
That's a good question. The theme of a wedding is (most commonly) going to be determined by your colour scheme. You can choose one or multiple colours that you want to focus on. but it also might make sense to pick a theme in terms of era/period or theme/concept instead of strictly focusing on a specific colour palette. For example. you could do an all-vintage style wedding (like in old-school Hollywood). Or maybe you want something timeless that doesn't fit into any particular period (like gold touches)? That's possible!
Top reasons to have a Wedding Theme
Choosing a wedding theme can be fun, but having one means you need to stick to that theme. Instead of worrying about having too many centre pieces or accessories, going with a theme helps you manage your money visually - as in, what's working and what's not. If you decide on a specific colour palette or style
for your wedding, you'll also have more guidance when making decisions down the road (think bridesmaid's dresses). Lastly, if there are themes that call out to you on Pinterest or Instagram because they fit who you are as a couple now - that's worth considering.
What are the cons of having a Theme?
If you decide to go with a theme, it's best to ensure that everything about your day is consistent The easiest way to make sure you're doing that is to find a venue or location whose décor fits with your theme - however, that's not always possible. And sometimes. you just fall in love with a particular venue and know there's no way its vibe will fit into any theme you could come up with. But if your wedding isn't tied into anything special (like an anniversary or location), then a theme can help add something memorable.
What is your Theme doesn't tie into your location?
Even though you have a theme picked out, you might find that you don't end up with a venue or location well-suited to your style. That doesn't mean you can't work with it, but be prepared to
make some adjustments to your plans if necessary. For example, if your chosen style involves an elaborate courtyard wedding in Italy in a mansion-turned-event space, but you end up booking a beachside resort... no worries! You just need to adjust how you use your outdoor space. Do more setup indoors (which might also be a new experience for guests) or roll with it as best as possible.
Conclusion
Your wedding can have a theme - but that doesn't mean you should have one. There are pros and cons to every style decision. including whether or not to have a theme. Before deciding what works best for you. consider both sides of the argument While having a wedding theme may help keep your budget in check. it also limits what kind of vendors you can work with and how their services will look on your special day.
